As an independent companion, I’ve experienced my fair share of wild and unforgettable moments. However, today, I’d like to focus on my encounters with nervous and inexperienced clients, and the beautiful, tender, and intimate moments that accompany them.
I vividly recall the first time I received an inquiry from a gentleman who had never been intimate with a woman. His introverted nature, combined with anxiety, had made it challenging for him to establish such a connection. I too felt a sense of nervousness about the encounter, as I was acutely aware of the immense responsibility that comes with being someone’s first. As someone who is naturally confident, open and non-judgmental I felt drawn to see him and we organised our liaison. I greeted him with warmth and compassion, creating a secure space for open communication, where he could share his fears and desires without any judgment. Establishing this foundation of trust is vital for us to be fully immersed in the moment, free from any doubts or fears. Since then, I have seen countless nervous and first-time clients and they are some of my favourite encounters!
Guiding a person through their first sexual encounter requires patience, care, and understanding. It begins with flirtatious banter and builds up to gentle touches, tender kisses, and slow caresses in an organic and unhurried setting. We listen to each other’s bodies, explore different techniques and sensations, and revel in the joy and excitement that comes with mutual discovery. As our time together draws to a close, we take some time to communicate and share our experiences, basking in the beauty of the moment.
For a nervous, inexperienced or first-time client, seeing an escort can be an empowering and transformative experience. Together, we can create a moment of beauty, growth, and discovery that will be unforgettable.
I am nervous and/or inexperienced, where do I begin?
I empathize with those who approach me with nerves or trepidation. The notion of being with an escort must be an intimidating prospect for the uninitiated, yet I assure you that every individual is deserving of a fulfilling, safe, and enjoyable experience.
Communication is of utmost importance in our liaison, and I implore my clients to candidly articulate their desires. Conversely, I express my own boundaries with transparency so that we both have a good understanding of one another.
For those experiencing anxiety or nerves, I maintain a slow yet deliberate pace, mindful of the sacredness of each moment. Speeding too rapidly towards the finish line can be overwhelming, and I feel it essential to embrace every facet of the experience with deliberate intent. Sex and intimacy should be a journey of exploration, replete with opportunities for self-discovery and growth.
How long should I book as a nervous client?
I would suggest starting with a minimum of 3 hours or, better yet, a 4 hour dinner date. This gives us time to get to know each other in an unrushed setting and as we build rapport, flirt, and giggle over dinner (and perhaps a cocktail or two!), you will find yourself becoming more at ease.
This is my first time seeing an escort in London, what is the etiquette?
If this is your first time booking a companion in London, I have put together an extensive page on client etiquette. Most importantly – be polite, respectful and always be prepared to pay a deposit and screen to secure your date.
Some final musings on seeing nervous clients – my role as an independent escort is to foster a safe, fulfilling, and cherished experience for the both of us. I accomplish this through patience, empathy, and a willingness to truly listen. I cherish the profound capacity of touch, dialogue, and adventure, and long to deliver those unforgettable experiences that you will warmly reminisce on. So if you are a nervous client looking for an independent escort in London, I just might be the woman for you.
Jessika Xx